Recovery Coach . Speaker . Consultant
Shawn Bonneteau
My work helps men and leaders find clarity at the root of compulsive sexual behaviors so they can move forward with responsibility, integrity, and lasting change
Consultant
Partnering with ministries and coaching organizations to develop thoughtful recovery programs that address unwanted sexual behaviors with depth, clarity, and integrity.
Speaker
Keynotes and workshops for churches and organizations on pornography recovery, biblical wholeness, and responsible leadership.
Coach
One-to-one coaching for men navigating compulsive behaviors, emotional regulation, and self-leadership under pressure.
Educator
A growing library of conversations and resources designed to help men understand their struggles and build mature, responsible lives
Trusted by Ministries, Organizations, and Counsellors
Areas of Focus
My work focuses on the deeper patterns that drive unwanted sexual behaviors and undermine integrity over time. Rather than surface-level accountability, the approach centers on emotional maturity and lasting internal formation.
This work forms men who don’t rely on willpower alone, but learn to depend on Christ while responding with maturity, clarity, and responsibility in high-pressure moments.
Key areas include:
Compulsive Sexual Behaviors & Pornography Recovery
Addressing pornography use and related compulsive patterns through a framework that prioritizes emotional regulation, responsibility, and long-term freedom rather than shame-based control.
Emotional Regulation Under Pressure
Helping individuals remain steady, present, and maintain the right direction in moments of stress, fatigue, or temptation.
Leadership and Responsibility
Supporting the growth of internal leadership learning to respond wisely rather than reactively, especially when emotions or impulses run high.
Integrity, Formation, and Character
Focusing on the kind of inner formation that sustains faithfulness, trust, and consistency in both personal life and leadership roles.
How this work is Applied
This work integrates into coaching practices, ministry environments, and organizational settings where long-term formation matters. It provides a grounded framework for addressing compulsive behaviors while supporting emotional maturity, spiritual integrity, and personal responsibility.
The approach adapts for individual coaching, group training, workshops, and keynote speaking always with respect for existing leadership and pastoral structures.
The goal is not independence, but mature dependence on Christ forming men who can remain steady, obedient, and clear minded when pressure rises.
Coaching practices
Help individuals address compulsive sexual behaviours at the root. Focusing on emotional regulation, self-leadership, and long-term change rather than behaviour management alone
Organization & Ministries
Delivered as workshops or trainings for organizations, ministries, or teams addressing integrity, emotional maturity, and sustainable behaviour change in high pressure enviroments.
Conferences & Events
Engaging, grounded keynotes addressing pornography recovery, compulsive behaviours, and internal leadership equipping men and leaders with practical skills and a Christ-centered framework for lasting integrity.
Professional teams
Consulting and collaboration with coaching practices or organizations seeking depth oriented recovery approaches. Teaching the skill of navigating high stress pressure and accountability
Experience and Credibility
This work is informed by years of hands on coaching, lived experience, and continued learning. It is shaped by real conversations, real struggles, and real progress not theory alone.
- Over 3,000 client sessions focused on compulsive sexual behaviors and recovery
- Triple certification in recovery coaching
- Extensive experience walking with men through pornography recovery and integrity formation
- Training in emotionally informed and attachment-aware coaching approaches
- A clarity-first approach that addresses heart level drivers before behavior change
- Experience supporting leaders and teams in building cultures of responsibility and integrity
- Approach grounded in biblical anthropology, spiritual formation, and practical skill development not behavior control alone.
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Trusted by Listeners and Leaders Worldwide
Feedback from listeners and leaders reflects the clarity, compassion, and practical impact of this work.
⭐ “Incredible Resource” – “The words of hope and life that Shawn and Helena bring are so powerful… Their focus is much more on the freedom that can come from being free from a pornography addiction… Every episode is drenched in grace for what has happened in the past and hope for the future.” — Listener, Apple Podcasts
⭐ “The mentors I Wish I Had" Shawn and Helena are the wise, kind couple I wish I had in my life when I was younger. This podcast allows anyone to benefit from the amazing lessons God has taught them about all kinds of sexual brokenness and how to truly heal. I highly recommend this incredible resource! — Listener, Apple Podcasts⭐ “Worth every listen” – “There cannot be enough of this! I immediately shared this podcast with my sisters and friends. Thank you for your work!” — Listener, Apple Podcast
⭐ “Must Discuss Topics” – “This podcast is a breath of fresh air… Bravo for bringing this to light and taking on the topic in a fun and engaging manner.” —Listener, Apple Podcasts
Overall Rating: ⭐ 5 out of 5 stars from 121 ratings
Real Stories from Coaches, Pastors, and Experts I've Helped
These stories reflect the kind of clarity, safety, and integrity leaders experience when shame is removed and formation is taken seriously.
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